Unchurched Friend

This is an interview with a friend that I lead to the Lord this past summer who hasn't yet committed to going to church because of work schedules. I enjoyed her openness and especially the answer to number six. I think I agree with unchurched people sometimes more than the churched ones :-).

1. What do you think is the greatest need in your area?
More open-mindedness
2. Are you actively attending any church?
Not at the moment, but hopefully soon.
3. What are a few issues or topics that impact/interest you?
Global warming/the end of the world (whenever that may be)
4. Why do you think most people don’t attend church?
I think today most people have the mindset that they don't need to go to church in order to practice their religion or religion just isn't as important to people now than it was years ago.
5. If you were to look for a church to attend, what kind of things would you look for?
I would look for a welcoming atmosphere. A place that would except me for the way i look, the mistakes i've made, and the way I act without judging me. A place that when I walk in I don't have the feeling that people are just staring me down.
6. What advice can you give to pastors who really want to be helpful to people?
Listen. Don't jump to conclusions right away rather try and understand where the person is coming from.
7. What is your longterm goal for your life?
Raise my daughter (possibly other children down the road) the best that I can. I'm not just saying this because this seems to be a survey on churches/ religion, but I really do want to bring my children up around God just because my parents didn't and at this point in my life I wish they had because I see how important it is.